Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Dor
This brings about a few issues that we had to debate over. First, does it really make us look bad, as if we chickened out of a making the tough, yet clear-cut decision and relented to splitting the money? In my opinion, no—if we look at the details and believe that it makes greater impact to split the money then that’s the opposite of being lazy, because we were all just about ready to vote for one of the organizations anyways. Does it set an iffy precedent, seeing as we are the first group to do this? Once again, we need to worry less about our image, because we are trying to help the kids here, not our image. The notion failed, which I don’t mind at all seeing as the organization we did choose (hurray, fireworks) is an amazing program that I fully support.
However, I must express my disappointment in the fact that we did not fully think through the splitting notion—we could have done much more to ensure that our money does 100% of what it can. We could have called the places and seen what they could do with the money for example, which we ruled out. Overall, though, the amount of enthusiasm the class has shown throughout the whole process has been fantastic, and I’m proud to have been a part of it.
Corey
Speaking for myself, its been a rewarding experience and I know with the genuine care and dedication this class has we will finish strong!
Kevin
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Roman
We came into class on Thursday with 5 organizations, which we quickly reduced to four. As a class we felt the eliminated organization did not put much emphasis on education, which is a focus of our mission statement.
As far as the other nonprofits go, we had some clear favorites, and a few organizations where only a handful of us believe should receive the grant money. However that does not mean we are done by a long shot. We still haven’t figured out how we will finally decide, and if we do decide to do a full unanimous decision, next week could really turn ugly. I just don’t want any of us to get too locked into our one set organization and ignore all other options. We can all agree that each organization that we thus far narrowed it down to has a lot of positives and we should all be pleased with however the money is divvied up.
Speaking of diving it up, Corey had an interesting idea in that we split the money and do multiple grants. This was an idea we had talked about earlier in the semester, and we ultimately decided to do one single grant. Originally I liked the single grant idea, but if we somehow can’t decide how to choose, multiple grants might not be such a bad idea, I think its something we should consider next week on Thursday if we haven’t chosen a recipient on Tuesday.
Arielle
I think it was really helpful for everyone to see where the other people in the class would like to donate the money and why. Some people had gut feelings or used past experiences to choose the organization they wanted to fund. Others used their passions in certain social justice areas to pick the organization that best matched with their ideals and goals. Others used very logical methods to come to their final conclusion. It was fascinating to hear why people chose what they did, even more than it was to hear what they had actually chosen.
I’ve learned a lot from this week, but I feel that the most important thing that I took away was how important this entire process is. There is no single piece (the application, phone interview and site visits) that is more important than the others. Every single piece helped the class to form their opinions about who we should fund. For example, my original number one choice after the applications didn’t change after the phone interview. In fact, I liked them even more. However, hearing what everyone said that went on the site visit, I realized that this is not an organization I would like to fund. Without having that piece, I don’t know that I would have come to the same conclusion. I’m very excited to see what we end up choosing in the end!
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Brendan
After the first stage of the application process Campfire USA was one of my top organizations. Now after conducting the interview and going on the site visit Campfire has solidified itself as the top applicant in my opinion. On the site visit I saw a lot of things that I liked. The kids all seemed to be really engaged in the activities while having fun at the same time.
It was especially interesting to see how each activity had so much more going on than appeared on the surface. One of the activities that was going on during our site visit was an ice cream making session. The kids were all really interested in this because of the promise of ice cream at the end of the activity. However there was a lot more to the activity than just making ice cream. The activity leader was teaching the kids about what went into ice cream and giving them an idea about where those ingredients come from. The activity also gave kids a little insight into chemistry without them even realizing. When they saw the salt out with the rest of the ingredients they thought that it went into the ice cream. However they later learned that the salt went in with the ice to make the ice water colder and prevent it from freezing at the normal temperatures.
These kinds of activities are what really set Campfire apart in my mind. In my experiences working with kids it can be really difficult to sit them down and get them to sit down and focus on academics. Campfire provides such an innovative way to integrate fun activities with an educational component.
If this week has done anything I think it has created a set of students who are going to die hard for the organization they support. I live with 3 other PL students (Jason, Eran and Dor) and we have all ready gotten in to small arguments about which organization is most deserving of the grant. I realized that none of the organizations are more deserving than the other organizations. All of the organizations do amazing work and have huge impacts on the young people that come to their organization. As a class we need to figure out what organization fits us best and where do we think that we can get the biggest “bang for our buck.” Looking back on it deciding to make only one large grant rather than 3 small ones might not have been the best idea. There is not a lot certainty when it comes to philanthropy, but one this is certain, next week is definitely going to be interesting.
Friday, April 23, 2010
Claire
I’ve only been on one site visit thus far, but from what I understand, most people’s experiences with leaders from these organizations have one thing in common: a clear demonstration of commitment to their work. It’s reassuring to see how invested these leaders are in their causes. One would hope, of course, that the person using such blood, sweat and time to better their organization would be dedicated to its worthy mission, but I still found my site visit this week refreshing and heart-warming. I was reminded on the trip that most of the adults that we’re meeting much like Andre Benepe, go above and beyond their official job descriptions each day. And generally, it’s because they care so deeply about what they do. It’s not for money or prestige.
These are role models. These are people who are encouraging us to get involved with their organizations, to be active parts of what they do for a living. Most of these organizations have opened their doors to us, whether for a day or for a year of involvement. But what about even longer periods, like making work in non-profit our careers? This class has opened a window into the lives of these strong, dynamic people who we respect and may some day want to emulate. I didn’t anticipate such an outcome from this class, but it’s certainly a benefit.
So. Do I have strong opinions about where I think our funds should go? Yes. But despite anticipating some difficult decisions in the near future, I am calmed by the growing knowledge that the organizations that we’re considering do wonderful, valuable work, and no matter what we will be investing in leaders who will carry out tasks and programs in which we all see the good.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Avinash
The most interesting part of class this week was on Thursday, when we decided the number of site visits we would go on and which organizations we would be visiting. As a class, we agreed that in order for a decision to be made, twenty-one out of the twenty-five students must be in agreement. After eight phone interviews, we could only agree as a class on two organizations to visit. This was surprising- there didn't seem to be any overwhelming dissatisfaction with any organization, yet we still could not agree on who to visit. To a certain degree, part of the problem was that students backed the organizations they interviewed. Ultimately, a decision was reached, but it was definitely not as clear cut and easily done as most of us had hoped. I can't help thinking that if deciding on site visits was this difficult, making a final decision for funding will be even more so. Hopefully, the site visits next week will make our decision a little easier.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Chris
With the interview process, however, came a few problems. The main concern beforehand was that students would have a bias towards the organization that they talked to. While this happened to some degree, it did not impede the ability for the class to come together and make decisions. In a medium sized class with ten applicants, I thought it would be harder for students to remain unbiased, but with a well rounded and compromising class, we managed to decide on which organizations to visit this coming week.
I look forward to the coming weeks of class. Not only has the interview process proven my pessimism wrong, but it also looks like the site visits will be just as revealing. After interviewing, and reading applications, this may be the most important deciding factor. Personally, I can’t wait.
Sunday, April 11, 2010
James
I think that having the panel speak has been a great asset for us. Several panel members cautioned us to not place too much weight on the application because some great organizations might not have the best writing while conversely terrible organizations could have really great writers. I think that advice has been instrumental in our decision to interview by phone a broad range of applicants to give everyone a chance to make their case. We received several applications that people weren't too crazy about due to poor writing or budget presentation but myself and many others feel we have nothing to lose by giving them a chance in a phone interview.
Site visits are another story as we have very limited time left in the course and many people have very busy schedules. I think that we need to be very careful in where we decide to visit as we should only explore the best options to be able to better decide amongst them. I don't think we should copy our plan with the phone interviews and give the underdogs a chance because I think that by that time they will have had ample opportunities to make their cases. I think that the site visits are too valuable as opportunities to distinguish between organizations doing really good, efficient work and those who aren't as invested in their work.
Friday, April 9, 2010
Andrew
Our next step in the process is to eventually make site visits in the upcoming weeks, as well as conduct interviews. The site visits will give us an excellent chance to get up close and personal with the remaining organizations and gain better insight to how our donation will impact that organization. Two weeks ago Mr. and Mrs. Levenson, the two individuals who gave our class the money to donate, mentioned the importance of the site visit among other things. Many applications may be very appealing and are well-written, but visiting the organization’s site may tell a different story and vice versa. The interviews are the final step, and will allow us to ask questions that the organization didn’t answer, or were unclear about. After these two steps, we will have all the information we need, and the deliberation and debate process will start once again in order to make our final decision. I wish the best of luck to all of the organizations that applied in their future endeavors.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Talia
I believe our class’s intelligent discussion on and thorough analysis of this case was a reflection of the progress we have made as new philanthropists and as public leaders in general. By gaining more insight into and knowledge of what it means to be a successful philanthropists and leader, we in turn are becoming successful philanthropists and leaders.
Jason
The leaders we read about were Lawrence Frymire of New Jersey Public TV (NJPTV) and Adrian Benepe of New York City Parks Commissioner. The contrasts between the two were amazing. Frymire was more of an anonymous leader, while Benepe was more known. I thought that Frymire was a great leader for NJPTV, and even though he was forced to resign, I think he could have kept doing good things for NJPTV. Benepe I also think was a good leader. I was amazed at how committed Benepe was to the parks. He personally looked out for vandals, and he went to events to promote donating to the parks, which he hated doing. I think both leaders were good for the job they had. I feel that Frymire did not need to promote NJPTV as much as Benepe had to promote the parks, so Frymire not going to events was did not harm NJPTV.
The all-women giving circle, the Hestia Fund (HF), was also a very interesting reading. I really enjoyed how hands-on HF was towards the organizations they funded. Also, making sure that not only organizations get money, but also the women in HF learn about philanthropy. This is an amazing concept, and it helped everyone want to be a part of HF. The impact that 40 women made with just $5,000 each was extraordinary. The read was very interesting and seemed to parallel what we are doing in class. We are a bunch of people that are trying to give away money, and we seem to run into a few of the same situations.
Overall, this week’s readings were very interesting and exposed me to a couple ways to lead and how those leaders ended up. Also, learning about HF was interesting as well because of how successful the fund was, and how much it paralleled our class. I am also hoping that we get some applications back for next week.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Maggie
The practice interviews compelled me to reevaluate what I thought the class as a whole was looking for in an organization and specifically what we wanted to learn from them. How could we ask questions that allow us to establish a connection with the interviewee and obtain sufficient information about their work to ensure we are able to find a proper fit? I believe it was apparent that as a class we wanted the interview to transpire more like a conversation than an interrogation. Watching the three groups interview “Jane Addams” really helped to expose some of the flaws in different techniques, as well as, some great questions that can potentially reveal a lot about the organizations.
The guest speakers provided us with a lot of input on the process of determining the right organization to receive the grant. One important point that was made, emphasized the fact that we don’t know everything, and we can potentially learn a lot from the different organizations we consider as long as we keep an open mind. Another point broached the idea that giving a grant is establishing a partnership, which consequently means that we are not greater or more important than those applying for the grant. There are a lot of worthy organizations doing good work, we are simply trying to find one that coincides with our goals and will partner successfully with us. One approach to finding the right partnership that was discussed asserted that determining the right organization required a combination of gut instincts and hard data. I think this is an important point to remember when doing the interviews and site visits, that there are crucial aspects beyond the facts we are given that need to be taken into consideration.
I am excited about moving forward to interacting with the different organizations. To discover how exactly we will determine the best fit for us, as well as how we will manage to overcome differences in opinion.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Reeta
Many of the points made in our readings were asserted by the panel members, one being the importance of humility. Lee Draper states in his article “The Seven Principles of Firmly Centered Grantmakers” that “Without the creativity, knowledge and programming of nonprofits, grantmakers would not be able to pursue their missions”. Panelist John Foster-Bey reiterated the point of humility when he said that “Having all the money didn’t matter because I wasn’t going to do anything with it.” While drafting our RFP’s last week, our goal was to try and create an application that would best help us discern the organizations that met all of OUR qualifications. This process of approval can easily lead to the mentality of “Why do you deserve OUR gift over someone else?” Our readings and panel discussion this week stressed the importance of looking beyond the application and realizing the influential rather than pivotal role we play as grantmakers.
This week we also learned more about the importance of site visits. Giving Well, Doing Good made the point when stating “This visit is critical, for sometimes even the most effective agents of change can only explain what they are up to by saying ‘Come and See.’” Panelist Karen Levenson also sided on the less scientific approach to philanthropy when she stated the some of the best places could have deficient RFP’s.
As we move forward, we will try to incorporate all that we can about the importance of both RFP’s and site visits, in order that we don’t prematurely deny a good opportunity some additional funding.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Request for Proposals
Applications are due by April 2nd, and questions can be sent to cpphils@gmail.com.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Jennifer
As we are such a large class, every single student has their own opinion, which makes it kind of difficult to fully agree on things. This week especially, there was more disagreement than usual. I think that the RFP and making sure that whatever we send out to the public is something that is extremely important to everyone in the class. As we completed the RFP this week, much discussion and debate went into creating it.
When we first began writing our mission statement and values, the class was split into two groups. Even then I had a feeling that writing the RFP was going to be a difficult task if we could hardly agree on our mission statement and values, a very small piece of the RFP. Observing my classmates fight for what they thought should be included in the RFP and as we constructed the final draft as a class, it was truly amazing to see how passionate everyone is about this class and even more so about making a difference in someone’s life. Each word of the RFP was ripped apart and carefully analyzed to make sure that it was perfect. I was nervous about how the RFP was going to turn out since we wrote it in groups. I was not sure whether or not it would flow properly, if things would fall through the cracks or if it would be cohesive. However, looking back now, I think that the end result could not have come out more perfect than it did. I think that writing this document further proved how dedicated we are as a class and what giving away $10,000 means to us.
This week’s classes really made me think about the organizations that we may potentially fund. As hard as it was to complete the RFP, it will be even harder to make the ultimate decision of who this money will go to. I don’t know how we will ever make this decision in such a short period of time! Although a ton of work and much discussion will go into it, I think that this may be one of the most worthwhile things I will ever do in my life. I look forward to coming back after vacation and getting started on reading all of the applications that we will receive. Even though it may be more work for us, hopefully there will be many, many applications! I can’t wait to get my hands on them!
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Eran
Unfortunately, that rarely happened. However, I think that is the beauty of our class. All the disagreements have created an amazingly interactive class that exceeded what I expected from this course. I am learning so much about everyone in the class. Certain people have tendencies that became extremely evident during the discussions we held this week.
There were several topics we discussed and debated over in class that I really found interesting. First, I was really amazed at how passionate people were regarding the simple formatting of the proposal. Some things that I thought were so trivial seemed to be such a big deal to others. I don’t think this is a problem, but rather a good thing, because it brought up certain things that were being overlooked. I also thought it was interesting how it was such a struggle to consolidate the two groups into one. I loved the enthusiasm people brought to the discussions and how defensive each group was when their team’s mission statement was under attack.
This past week was extremely productive and I can’t wait to get back and start reading the applications. I can already predict it will be difficult to decide as a class which application to seriously consider, but I am also excited for that process.
Keep it up!
Friday, March 5, 2010
Arley
To tackle all of these questions we continued working in our two groups to work on the hard task of developing a united philanthropic mission statement and description of our values. On Tuesday we finalized our respective groups mission statement, value statement, and funding focus, and we discussed them both as a whole group. Even though our groups had decided on very similar areas to give our money too there was still a large amount of disagreement on exactly how to word the mission statement. This discussion really exemplified how people can get really passionate about something that they put work into even if someone else only wants to change it by a small amount.
Our group had a list of potential areas of childhood development in which we would like the organization to work with, and the other group thought that it was confusing to have that list as part of the mission statement because organizations might think that they needed to incorporate all of them in their programs and end up not applying for our grant for that reason. A problem that our group had with the other groups mission statement and value statement was that it had “too much fluff”. That an organization looking at that values statement would not understand what the values meant because they were so vague and hard to qualitatively measure. At the end of class on Tuesday we choose four members of each group to have a “battle royale” on the two controversial mission statements on Thursday.
On Thursday we divided further into groups to discuss pieces of the RFP that we are going to put together as a “Frankenstein” mold for our final draft. The first group, the negotiators, worked on our final group mission statement. A second group focused on the specifics of the grant(s) we want to give and who will be eligible, etc. A third group looked at our selection criteria, and our application narrative, and a final group created a flyer to advertise our grant opportunity to potential organizations. I worked with the group creating the flyer, and we found it hard to make without knowing what the other groups were doing. The whole process seemed a little disjointed, but I guess it was necessary considering we couldn’t get all of those tasks done as one group, and this is only our first draft of the whole RFP.
Even though this weekend did provide a lot of new questions I think that it is beginning to become much clearer the direction in which we are headed and what exactly we are trying to accomplish. With our finalized mission statement and drafted RFP we will feel more and more confident about getting our application out there and hearing back from potential organizations. I look forward to this week and sending out a strong RFP we are proud of to the Community Foundation for the National Capital Region.
Brett
Class resumed on Thursday, March 4th, with the beginning of our negotiation about mission and value statements, but also began the development stage of our RFP! On Tuesday, we had been given a few different RFP examples from the Community Fund, Youth PoWR, and some others. From the RFP’s, I found a lot of good ideas on how to accurately assess a nonprofit through a brief and concise RFP. Our class is looking requesting short proposals considering our time constraints and our sometimes short attention spans. During the negotiations, however, our class made concrete decisions to target nonprofit organizations that help the youth in Prince George’s County with budgets under $250,000, and hope to find many such organizations to apply for our Fund! Since our class only has until the end of the semester to draft a request, receive proposals, evaluate proposals, interview candidates, do site visits with candidates, and finally choose and draw up a contract for funds, I have a feeling the next few weeks are going to be a blur. But I cannot wait!
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Megan
After coming up with our statements, we then met as a whole class to discuss what each team had developed. Despite having completely separate discussions from one another, the two mission statements were actually similar. The main similarity was that both teams wanted to focus the funds we have on a youth organization. One of my team’s reasons for this was that we felt giving to a youth organization would have the most lasting impact. One of the main differences between the two mission statements was that one team wanted to limit the focus of their funds by only giving to an organization in Prince George’s County. The other team was open to giving to an organization in either Prince George’s County or Montgomery County, but they wanted to limit the funds focus by only giving to an organization with a budget of less than $100,000. At the end of class we discussed how to resolve these differences, possibly by compromising and including both limitations in our final statements.
Next week we will be discussing whether or not to combine our mission statements and donate the $10,000 as a whole, or to keep the statements separate and each give $5,000 to separate organizations. I personally feel that we should give try to resolve the statements, since they are not all that different from one another and giving $10,000 will have a much greater impact than $5,000. This seemed to be the general consensus of the class as well, so hopefully we’ll be able to develop a statement that will encompass both groups’ main goals.
The readings we did this week discussed what things should be considered when giving money as well as the various forms of grants that can be given. From the readings I was able to see how very important the work we did this past week truly is, as the values we have established in our statements will need to be referred to throughout this entire process. We will most likely get many applications seeking grants for many worthy causes, and without having the guideline of these mission statements, it would be next to impossible to decide who to give to. This makes establishing a concise mission statement all the more important, and I look forward to seeing what our teams come up with in the upcoming weeks.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Heather
This week in class we started the crucial process of drafting missions statements. We were first asked to consider and write about our own personal philanthropic philosophies. After completing our personal statements we were split up into two groups to create missions and values statements that will help guide where we will eventually spend our funds. We also discussed the proposition of trying to find someone to match the $10,000 we already have to work with or fundraising to add to it.
The readings for this week focused on the types of grants that can be made as well as things that should be considered when deciding whom to give money to. By the end of class on Thursday each of the two class groups decided they would like to focus their efforts on youth in the local area. One group’s mission statement focused mainly on education, however, while the other wanted to support youth involvement in the community. In addition, the first group wanted to focus on smaller organizations in either Prince George’s County or Montgomery County, while the second group limited their scope to Prince George’s County without specifying how large or small the organization should be.
I think the work we did this week was extremely important. Not only did it get us thinking about the specifics of where we want the money to be spent, it also forced us to start considering many of the logistical aspects of the philanthropic process. One of the readings highlighted the importance of a mission statement by offering an example of an organization that was forced to refer back to their core values and purpose when they were unable to fund all of their desired projects. This reading had a particular impact on how I viewed our assignment. It made me realize that the work we started this week will be pivotal in setting limits on our spending and helping us choose a worthy organization to give to. In terms of logistics, the class was forced to compromise and prioritize values and goals in order to complete the mission statements. Personally, I would like to see the two groups eventually merge and form one mission statement. I think our goals are similar enough that we could come to an agreement as a class and use all of the funds to promote one cause. By remaining in separate groups the class will be forced to split our already small sum of money into two smaller portions that ultimately may not make as great of an impact.
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Connie
Jane Addams was a favorable philanthropist because she immersed herself in the poor neighborhoods and allowed herself to truly understand the root of the problem (of poverty). Some people viewed Rosenwald as a man before his time because he strove to help African Americans. Some people also liked Rosenwald’s and Carnegie’s philosophies of giving and making a difference when alive. I think The Kaplan Fund was a good example of good intentions gone wrong when money and expectations were put in the hands of younger generations. Also, some argued that Carnegie’s “ladders upon which the aspiring can rise” was placed a little too high off the ground by only building libraries in communities where they could afford to maintain them. Others argued that Carnegie’s method made the communities more connected with the libraries because they had to invest their own money and efforts into them. Rockefeller, another popular philanthropist, was favored because he hired experts to take care of his organizations in efforts to ensure that they were successful. Black Elk, though the least popular in class, valued giving as a way to express one’s humanity and membership in the community.
We also had the pleasure of receiving advice from Terri Freeman and Angela Hackley from the Community Foundation National Capital Region. One of the obstacles our class is going to face is deciding who to help, and who to turn down. Most likely, all the organizations will have honorable causes and missions, making our decision difficult. Terri and Angela stressed the importance of finding a group with strength. Not necessarily strength in its application, but strength in its organization. Do people in the organization talk to each other? How is the power distributed among colleagues? Are its goals and missions lucid and understandable? Can we make an impact this way? Dr. Grimm added that it is a balance between the head and the heart that we must find.
Carlos
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Nicole
The other reading that stands out most in my mind was the Kaplan Fund’s case study. This reading showed the importance of strong leadership, and organization in a fund. Being that we are all in the Public Leadership program, this particular lesson seemed to resonate throughout the class. It also inspired a nice discussion about how we would like to come to an agreement on where we think the money should be going. In this discussion we debated the pros and cons of splitting up the money among several organizations versus giving a larger sum of money to one organization.
Beyond the readings, I have been most struck by the quality of discussion among our classmates. With every topic at hand, there has been at least one comment made by one of my classmates that would not have occurred to me on a normal basis. These first few classes have made me very excited for the semester, and everything our class will be doing. We have a great group of students who are all very excited about our project, and I have already learned so much, just within our first four classes.
Loretta
Our first full week of classes has just ended, and I have begun to get a better grip on the concept of philanthropy. We know that we will receive $10,000, we know that we will be giving it away, and we know will be involved in the philanthropic process. But what is philanthropy? What does it really means? As a class, this week we began to delve into these topics.
We analyzed a reading called, “True and False Philanthropy.” We discussed if there is such a thing as true philanthropy versus false philanthropy. Is it better to give to the world or just to your own community? There were many different opinions on this issue. Some felt that giving to your own community was better because you would be more involved in the process. Sometimes that is very hard to do on a large scale because it is much easier to lose track of where your money goes. At the same time, we must not forget the people in the world who are in need. The tragedy in Haiti was mentioned. Haiti would not be considered as part of our community, but they are dependent on U.S help. We talked about what it would it be happen if the US just focused helping those within its borders.
We read two case studies. We learned that it is important for an organization to have a concrete plan with measurable results. Just because we agree in helping a cause does not mean we should jump to donate money. It is best for our money to be used most efficiently, and the best way to do that is with a plan we accept and approve. We also discussed whether it is better to give money as one gift or if the money should be split into smaller gifts. As a class we decided it would be more effective to give one large gift because in that we would be able to make a greater difference.
Later in the week, we looked at history and philanthropy. We read about some of the first philanthropists such as Benjamin Franklin, Cotton Mather, and John Winthrop. There was criticism of Franklin in the way he left money for apprentices after his death. Some argued it was better to give while you are alive because you would be able to see results and be involved in the process. Some believe that some issues are long term and one cannot simple give all one’s money when they are alive because it is better to give in a way that is sustainable.